Can you believe that we are already 5 months into 2018? Which means it’s time for another edition of “Dos and Don’ts.”
Please check out prior months HERE. Also, if you have a “Do or Don’t” that you think we should hear please feel free to send them my way at email@example.com. You never know when it may be published!!!!
Shana: Don’t put all of your eggs in one basket. Don’t use all of your resources on one thing! – Broaden those horizons because there is more out there for you!
Toya: This is sound advice and something that most are taught from an early age. At times, it can be very hard to stick to this idea or concept.
S: Don’t waste time worrying about something you have no control over, everything works its self out in the end; whether it’s the way you intended or not. Remember that everything happens for a reason.
T: I have to tell myself this several times a day. I find myself wanting to be in control and sometimes have a hard time letting go. I’m learning to trust myself and others more. Anxiety is not fun.
S: Be the friend that you want to have and remember your friends are allowed to have other friends.
T: 👏🏽👏🏽 I love this! In January I wrote a blog centered around friends, click HERE to read all about it! Just remember that friendship is a two-way street. It’s a relationship that also requires work as well as sacrifices. Friends shouldn’t be jealous of their friends or their friends, friends. But they should encourage, uplift, and support each other.
S: Hear say is exactly that…
T: Pretty much! Don’t sweat it.
S: You are not going to like everyone and everyone will like you, so just be nice and keep it moving.
T: Your character speaks a lot about yourself. He who angers you, control you!
S: Don’t be petty, or overly dramatic….well unless you are 8 then it’s only somewhat okay.
T: Haha. Everyone loves a little pettiness though, right? LOL
S: Accept change. It’s the only way to make it through life.
T: Certainly true. Life is all about change.
S: Do not stress. You are too pretty for that! Have a glass or a bottle of wine, it works wonders!
T: You don’t have to tell me this twice. I’m currently loving Prosecco. You should try some! I recently heard that if you add a splash of St. Germain to your Prosecco that it’s like heaven. So that’s my next mission. I’ll give you my thoughts when I try it!
S: If you have kids learn to enjoy things they enjoy, it will keep you young at heart.
T: And it will also keep you busy. I’m just saying!
S: If you wear makeup wash it off before you go to bed, let your skin breathe!
T: You should probably do this. Although, I can admit that there are nights when I completely skip this step in my nightly routine. I do like the makeup wipes though, it makes it a lot easier and quicker.
S: Wear sunscreen!!! I feel like I can’t stress this enough. Melanoma is in the top 10 most diagnosed types of cancer! I actually had a friend to recently go to the dermatologist and was told to wear chap-stick at all times. So for all of you who make fun of the hundreds of chap-stick tubes I keep with me, ha!
T: Dear Black People, just because we don’t spend a lot of time in the sun doesn’t mean we do not need sunscreen. We not only tan but we can also burn as well. Even when it’s cloudy outside, sunscreen should be worn. As it gets warmer and we begin to wear less clothes be sure to have your sunscreen!! Here’s a picture of me from vacation last summer. The Caribbean sun burned me to a crisp.
S: I stole these last two from one of Toya’s blogs but they really resonated with me:
“We may be delayed but we are not denied” – everything may not happen in your time, on your schedule but that doesn’t mean it won’t happen.
“Never think that you are exempt from anything especially if you have not taken the precautionary steps” – people really need to read this sentence aloud and read it often, because I think we all live our lives like nothing bad could happen to us, when truth is we don’t know. Only the man above knows exactly what our every move is before we make it.
T: The above two quotes were taking from my “Delayed but not Denied” blog. To get a better context of those two quotes, please click the above link for the full blog post.
Well that does it for this month! Let us know what your favorite “Do or Don’t” was for the month. As always, your comments, likes, and shares are welcomed.
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