Can we all agree that this year has flown by! It is very hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that it’s November already. But, it’s here and it’s nothing we can do about it at this point but join in on the fun. With that being said, it’s time for November’s Dos and Don’ts.
Shana: Take life one day at a time….it’s not a race, you may think your peers are out doing you but maybe it’s just not your time, but it will come!
Toya: I believe it’s very important for us to appreciate where we are in life and to also celebrate where others are in their lives. You know, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side.
S: We were all put on this earth for a reason, make sure yours is a good one!
T: We can most often do this by finding our purpose in life or our mission. Have you thought about that lately? If not, start doing that now!
S: Don’t be scared to step outside of your box. I feel like we all get really comfortable in our everyday life and don’t make efforts to change.
T: I love it. Change is often hard but it’s most likely always necessary. Great point, Shana!!!
S: Do something good everyday, whether it be for you or someone else. Pay it forward!
T: Have you ever been in a drive-thru line at a restaurant and you get up to the window to pay and the person before you has already paid for your meal? It is a wonderful and great feeling. Let’s all remember to do that at least once this Holiday season. Let’s pay it forward! Are you in?
S: Be humble!
T: Yes! It’s important to stay grounded.
S: If you are a born leader, set a good example. Not everyone is born this way, some are followers.
T: Plain and Simple.
S: We are coming on the season of giving, this doesn’t mean you spend every dime you have buying the most expensive gift for someone. It’s really the thought that counts, put thoughts into your gift rather than a ton of money. People will appreciate it more!
T: Hmmmm…I’m thinking about what I want to receive. I like expensive!!!!!! Can I have thought and expensive? Haha.
S: This time of year is a great time to donate, whether it be your time or donations to a shelter or not-for-profit organization.
T: I know a lot of organization have already started doing coat drives, Holiday Baskets, and so much more this season. Reach out to your local organizations or church to see how you can be a blessing to someone else.
S: Remember there is another holiday between Halloween and Christmas. I feel like more and more people forget about Thanksgiving!
T: People. Let’s not forget about Thanksgiving. It is by far, my favorite Holiday!
S: Get your rest, you really can’t be your best “YOU” without unwinding a little.
T: Yaaaaaaaaasssssssss!! When I tell you I have been working like a mad-dog I mean that. So much so that I haven’t been getting my proper rest, I haven’t been working out, I haven’t been eating well and I can tell. Get the 4-1-1 on my life HERE!
S: Don’t live in someone’s past, I think we get fixated on what a person was instead of what they have become to be. People can change.
T: To add to this, I would also say don’t get caught up in a person’s potential either. It can go both ways. Just be careful out here in these streets!
S: Be thankful for the things you have rather than what you don’t.
T: Currently hanging on my wall……
S: Be optimistic! No one likes a negative Nancy!
T: What she said!
S: Don’t forget, there are only a couple of weeks until Christmas! Spend time with family and friends if you don’t have the means for gifts and giving! Time is just as important!
T: Time is everything. In all honestly and with all jokes aside, it is not about the gift. But it is all about the time you share with one another and the memories you will create that will last so much longer than any possible gift. Time is priceless!
Bonus: Ladies/Gents–Do you or your man participate in the No Shave November? If so, I want to see pics! Tag me on Social Media or use the Hashtag #ItojaNoShaveNovember
Well, that wraps up November! It’s a lot of great Dos and Don’ts in this post. I’m eager to see what was your favorite. Be sure to leave your comments below and to hit the FOLLOW BUTTON to be sure you’re never missing out on the fun. We have some fun things already in progress just for you for 2019!
How many of you will join in on the Pay it Forward Challenge that I’m creating at this very moment! If you’re in, comment IN on the post and then be sure to come back to let us know how you Paid it Forward this Holiday Season!!!!!!! Use Hashtag #ItojaPayItForwardChallenge on your social media feeds so that I can follow along.