Apparently, I’m just a text away!?

Everything I do, exist of me being on my phone.  From paying bills, to emailing, to social media, shopping….everything.  But apparently, I’m a HUGE texter.  My cell phone provider sent me an email breaking down my usage for 2017. I was blown away! 80k text? Are you kidding me?  That’s over 6k text a month, […]

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Today, my curls are popping!

Before we touch on my curls today, let me just say that my hair has been the topic of many discussions.  People are constantly asking me where did I get my hair from?  What are you mixed with?  Honestly, I DO NOT KNOW.  But I will find out soon and when I do I will […]

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Dos and Don’ts (March Edition)

Well, well, well! Your favorite blogger is back with your favorite segment of IToja which is the monthly edition of Dos and Don’ts!!! If you need to catch up the previous issues, please catch the 411 HERE for January and HERE for February! All aboard? Lets go! Shana:  Don’t pay full price for anything.  There […]

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A peep inside Marriage

As kids, boys and girls are raised a little different from one another.  Girls are given kitchenettes and baby dolls.  They begin an imaginary life of what they want when they get married and how they want it.  They immediately begin playing house.  While boys are given power tools and things to build.  They are […]

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Pray by Sam Smith

Anyone familiar with the English singer/song-writer, Sam Smith and his latest song, Pray? It is a song that I play at least 8 times a day.  Usually back to back. I love how he goes from a deep tenor tone to a high falsetto (his voice is magical) as what appears to be a choir […]

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Dating Military: Long Distance vs PTSD

Dating is hard.  Let’s just put that out there.  It is even harder when you are young.  To me, it’s hard because you’re still trying to figure out who you are as a person.  You’re still trying to learn to love yourself while also figuring out where life will take you.  Adding another person into the mix, to love and to […]

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